Sincerity

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Didn’t realise I have been missing for a month from blogging. I was lost again. Lost in direction and feeling very down with everything. So it took me a while to stand up again to ignore all the negative energy. I try to do meditation by doing self-reflection. I am also training my E.Q to be stronger so that I will not be influenced by negative energy.

Today while I am driving to work, I was thinking about this word which is “Sincerity”. How do I identify who is sincere to me or who is using me for their own benefit? Those people who are always smiling at me, are they sincere or they are just waiting for a good time to push me down. Then I was going thru some research, I found this interesting cartoons with a tittle of Sincerity Cartoons from Cartoon Stock.

When I was going thru, I was laughing because Cartoon Stock illustrates the current world situation. Humans are a selfish creature. Only a minimal of the population will treat people sincerely. What you see and hear sometimes might not be sincerely from the speaker.  The below cartoon stated clearly that the girl is “sincerely” trying to shut the audience and ask them to go away. If you lazy to comfort negative people, you will just prepare the thing needed to pacify them. This is just to avoid unnecessary thing to happen.

Sincerity Cartoon

Another cartoon that really attracts my attention is the below cartoon. This is so true. Everyone is giving you feigned sincerity greetings. That is why this kind of greeting cards sold out faster than genuine emotions greetings.

Sincerity Cartoon (2)

I will never understand why some people have that kind of bad intentions. I think they are not afraid of Karma. They are not, but I am. That is why I always ensure whatever I do is always from my heart. People who appreciate me, they will get my sincere treatment, people who are not, I will eliminate them by avoiding them.

Thanks to Cartoon Stock. You make my Monday smile.

Are You Happy? If You Are Not, Why?

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Reading broadens your mind and thinking. However, is also really depends on what material or articles your are reading. I am guessing that the types of material and article you read really depend on your age category. However, no matter what you read, if you do not practice it and always take things for granted it will still lead you to negative path.

When I was a teenager, I love to read a love story and mystery story. Most of it is a fictional story. Why I do love to read a love story because it makes me feel loved and living in a happily ever after life. Why do I love to read a mystery story, because at the beginning of the story the author will always make you feel anxious and you will have to read till the end to have happily ever after ending. When I was a teenager, I have no stress, no commitment and I don’t to worry about money, installment and house loan.  That is why I always tell myself, I am a lucky girl.

When I finish my college degree and start working in the corporate world, I start to read NonFiction material and article. The author I love the most is Cathy Glass, a wonderful and caring foster carer. If I remember correctly, her first book that I read was Another Forgotten Child. Is about unlucky girl Aimee’s life. How can a small girl life be so cruel? While reading my tears will flow down automatically because I feel so sad for Aimee. From that moment, I realise that not everyone is as lucky as me. Of course towards the end, is was a happy ending, however, the journey Aimee is not supposed to travel by a little girl. That is why I start to appreciate my parents and everything I have without being demanding.

When I reached the age of approximately 27 (I think). I start to read a lot about how to live a better life. At that age, I was in the corporate world for about 6 years, I have observed a lot of negative action where I name them as “Negative Drama In Corporate World”. The reason why is because no one is sincere in the corporate world.  Of course maybe not all, but out of 100%, maybe 98% is not sincere. Everybody stick with you for a reason. You call yourself a best friend of mine, but when there is a problem, instead of solving together, you start blaming. There is where I start to complain and being very rebellious. I start to hate people who betray me. I start to isolate myself from everybody. I start to become a bossy person and do not trust anybody including my partner who is with me for about 11 years now. I tell myself, I can live alone and I can do everything by myself. Subsequently, I start to be very bad tempered. I get frustrated even with small things. This negative energy attaches with me for 2 years.

I guess I am really a lucky person. God loves me and cares about me. For 2 years I have been living in an unhappy life. My relationship with my partners getting worst that we nearly end our relationship. When my life is turning into disaster path, my superior who just return back from her long leave (due to personal reason) gave me a book which I have share on my previous post, Superlife Secretcodes by Great Sun. This books changes my whole life. Master Sun teaches us how to be a happy person, how to look things in different way. How to be more positive and how to eliminate negative energy? I am still practicing now and also requested my partner to read together and practice together so that we can learn together as we are getting marry soon.

I slowly realise that life can be so simple, why do we need to make it so complicated. I start to read more about Living Happily. Ways and steps to be more positive thinking. Live in minimalist lifestyle. Last time when I read lifestyle magazine, I will survey what are the new things to buy, but now I will just glance thru those pages with fashions, branded materials. I will normally concentrate on the good article share by others.

I read this article yesterday. Shared by Ng Siew Yen. Population of unhappy people is growing and if it continues, we will  be facing with more commit suicide case, people will live without love and care. Human will stop to Love and Gratitude. Why wait to be Happy? Just like what Siew Yen say,  we deserved to be Happy Now and Always.

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FEMALE MAGAZINE MALAYSIA – JUNE 2017

 

 

Now, I know, reading is good, reading good material and article is also good, but we also have to practice, learn and always remember to Love and be gratitude. I am still learning and that is why I created this blog, is to journal down my Colourful Life. Be happy guys, because we will not know what will happen tomorrow. Let our God decide and we just need to continue to live happily.

 

 

 

 

New Week Quotes To Stay Positive and Focus 

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I start my week with a quote. This week quote is being myself and avoids drama king/queen people. I not able to change these people because is all depends on themselves, but I can avoid these people in order to have a more peaceful life.

I notice younger generations (Not to say I am very old) now likes to drama in front of their bosses. I can’t really understand the reason why they want to do that but I assume is for their own benefit and to climb up faster in their corporate ladder world.

To me, I always believe that as long as I am kind and being honest to everybody and treat everybody with my sincere heart, I will have a better life. I might not be successful in the corporate world, but I believe I will be successful being a kind human being because I always believe that Karma will hit you one day if you being evil. Like what Master Sun always say in his “Super Life Secret Codes”, 2 secret codes that will lead you to a better life, LOVE & GRATITUDE.

SHOUT OUT TO ALL DRAMA PEOPLE, LEAVE ME ALONE, I JUST WANT TO WORK PEACEFULLY!

 

Be Myself

 

Raindrop Represent My Tears (Photoblog)

Recently, I have found out my passion hobby which is blogging. I am a person who does not know how to express my own feeling. I always keep it to myself. Sometimes, is really very tiring because is really pain inside me.

I notice that I able to express myself here. My wording might not be as good as a professional blogger; however, I wish to improve myself so that I able to write better.

Working life is tough recently. Confusion and negativity feeling increasing. Trying very hard now.

Recently is a raining season. Is also my feelings too. Tired, angry and disappointed. The raindrop represents my tears in my heart. Hoping everything will be better soon.

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Long Long Way To Go (Photoblog)

How I see my life is “Long Long Way To Go”. At the age of 28 this year, I still have a long way to go before I gave up on anything. I am now learning not to be too offensive and learning not to give up easily.

Continue to walk forward, not walking backwards. There are a lot of devils around and I shall not be defeated by those devils.

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Long Long Way To Go (Sekinchan)

Customer Service & Right Attitude

What should you do if you are working with irresponsible people? Everybody want things to be perfect and hope that things go well. I also understand that nothing always goes right sometimes but it can’t be too frequent. As a front liner, I always wish that I able to provide the best services and best quality product to my customers. I always put myself in their shoe, as in if I were them, how I wanted it to be.

Sad to say that, not everybody has that kind of attitude. Humans are selfish. They only care about themselves. Just because they don’t have to face customers, they pretend don’t know and I name it the most powerful word that is always being used by the irresponsible person is “I Don’t Know”. When there are complaints which task is not done, they always say “I Don’t Know”. No sense of responsibility and no sense of ability.

In order to achieve more, everybody should work together and complete any task given on time. One person will not be able to achieve the best quality services. I have tried many times to explain to my colleague that customers services are very important, however, it does not seem they are listening and it does not seem important to them too.

I choose to let go with lecturing these irresponsible people and put my effort in providing best quality services to my customers on things which I able to take control.Nothing is perfect, but at least I try my very best. There are rooms for improvement, however, I believe, with my right attitude and thinking, I will be able to achieve more.