About Art

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I always very curious about art. Each time I see an art piece I will always be curious how the artist does it. I feel very jealous and always tell myself how I wish I can draw as well. However in the same time, I also always give myself the same excuse which is “I’m not creative”.

Yesterday when I was buying things for my wedding preparation, I drop by MPH Bookstore and I found this interesting box. I was curious about it so I bought it with the price of RM38.00. At the beginning, I thought the book is letting owner practice drawings. End up the book actually is like a  128 page of a reference book about drawings. Together with 3 graded drawing pencils and 3 graded charcoal pencils.

So, is really a beginner’s guide book about drawings. =) I have not really go thru yet. Once I have spare time, will definitely share if this guide is useful.

Self Healing is The Key to a Blissful Life

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Stop giving excuses and reasons that will delay your plan to achieve happiness!

Everybody wishes to have a better life, a blessed and blissful life. How to have a better life if most of the time you are being negative and giving your own self a lot of reason and excuses. Life is full of challenges at various point in life. If you do not stay strong, you will collapse in the negative energy world. Keep things simple and avoid complicated thoughts that may cause confusion and prevent from understanding the truth.

Keep things simple and avoid complicated thoughts that may cause confusion and prevent from understanding the truth” (Ted Sun).

Happy Friday and enjoy your weekend…

Fifty Shades E-Book

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Is Monday today and I am stuck outside the office due to access card system down. So instead of complaining Monday blue and starting a day with negative thinking, I choose to do something meaningful. First, harvest my smurf village and thereafter, update my lovely colourful life blog.

I just finished reading my Fifty Shades books. Guess what, I am so in love with this book. I didn’t know about Fifty Shades until my friend was telling me about it and they told me I have to read this book. They call it a porno novel because is full of sexuality section when you read it they say you will feel sexy.

I went Amazon Kindle and coincidently they have bundle sales with the price of $15.59. The review written wasn’t in Amazon is 50/50. Good and bad review. So as usual, with just 1 click, I have it in my beloved Kindle. Is true, this novel is full of sexual line and is so deep that you do feel it. I don’t feel it horny, what I mean I feel in love.  Is all about loving a traumatic partner with full of patient, honestly, compromising and learning together.

Love is complicated, but if both parties are not putting an effort in loving each other, the “happily ever after” will not happen. The feeling is so sweet because is show how Cristian Grey protecting his girlfriend Ana. How he feels jealous when there is another guy happen to go after Ana as well. Forget about the “submissive” thingy, I just know about this “submissive” world. Of course, in this world, nothing is perfect. In this novel, it seems everything is so perfect. That is why it is a fiction book.

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Fifty Shades E-Book On My Kindle

After reading this novel, then only I got to know there is a movie acted base on the novel. So went to check on google to see if there is any free online streaming and surprisingly there is. You can steam it at Watch Your Favourite Movie Online. Of course, the movie version is not as detail as written in the book. So, is really full of detail sexuality scene that I don’t think is a good idea to watch it in public and together with your children. haha. You can watch it alone (I watch it alone) or with your partner (I will see if my partner wants to watch with me or not).

I will say is more for relaxing your mood with love story. Try not to go into it because this is fiction story, not a real story. Out of five, I will rate this novel and movie four.

Happy Monday

Happy Wesak Day

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I am very gratitude that I was given extra holiday today. With this extra holiday, I have the additional hour to spend time with my beloved family, to read my book,  to update my blog and to continue with my DIY project.

I am telling myself not to give any excuses to delay any task that I have set for myself. I know that if I continue giving excuses and reason, I will not go anywhere. If I continue complaining about my life, I will not go anywhere as well.

Today, I was given additional hours to sleep. This is bad because I woke up at 11 am today. Not a good habit, but because I slept late yesterday as I was too into my DIY project. So the first thing I woke up I received a call from my tenant asking for urgent assistance as the residential penthouse they rent having power supply problem. Once I put down her call, It wakes up my mind and I thank god for not ignoring the call because if I do not pick up her call she will be having a bad holiday.

So the first thing when I woke up I received a call from my tenant asking for urgent assistance as the residential penthouse they are renting having power supply problem. Once I put down her call, It wakes up my mind and I thank god for not ignoring the call because if I do not pick up her call she will be having a bad holiday. So I try to call the team to get a technician on standby to assists on this matter. I was disappointed because I try to get the team but no one is cooperating. However, I tell myself, never give up, never be angry, they might be busy with something. Finally, after waiting and keep on trying, one colleague reply me but instead of assisting me, he is giving excuses. Saying that isn’t his job, should ask the common property management to assists. I feel is very bad for him to say that because it shows he is someone who is irresponsible and selfish. However, I tell myself, never be angry, never reply impolitely, so courteously, I requested for assistance again. Finally, another colleague comes in and assists on this matter. The matter did not go smooth, however, is under control now. I shall monitor if their problem occurs.

I try not to absorb the negative energy given by my colleague, I try not to talk bad about him, I tell myself to stay positive because I practising the concept in the book which I am still reading now, Happiness in Hard Times by Andrew Matthews. It says that problem will not fix if we continue criticising people. Every person who walks in your life is a teacher. Even if they drive you nuts, they teach you because they show you where your limits are. Just because people are your teachers doesn’t mean you have to like them or be like them. 

So, I move on after the incident and continue reading my book, and update my blog. After this, I will continue my DIY project.

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~”Happiness In Hard Times”, DIY Project, Blogging Time~

 

Happy World Book Day 

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Today is Sunday and also is World Book Day. 

Currently I am reading Happiness in Hard Times by Andrew Matthews and Super Life Secretcodes by Master Sun. 

For Super Life Secretcodes, I have it both hardcopy and Kindle copy. I love this book because it start to change my thinking and I wish I can access this book anytime at anywhere. That is why I bought the Kindle version as well. 

Happy reading… 

6 Excuses Postponing Happiness

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Time seriously flies in a second because #TGIF has arrived. I have been focusing reading my motivation books. Reminding myself to ensure I continue searching #MyColourfulLife. I am trying to master two wonderful books. One of the books is Super Life SecretCodes by Master Sun. Another one is Happiness  In Hard Times by Andrew Matthews.

I am practising very hard now on those principles and ways both authors suggested. I realise, is easy to read and understand, but is seriously not easy to remember it and practice. I have the tendency to forget and continue with my bad habit.

I love Andrew Matthews book because of the colours and cartoon in the books. At the same time, there are case studies of real life scenario in order for you to understand better. I remember reading this Happiness In Hard Times a few years back. I think I have read it but I am not practising it because I am seriously going thru Hard Times now.

I think is good that I note it down each time I finish one chapter. This is to remind Me, and also to share with everyone who willing to read my journey.

The first Chapter is about Acceptance.

Andrew is telling us to accept where you are and to forget about blame, forget about guilt, forget about “what ifs” and move forward. I really want to note down and highlighted a few points from this chapter which is:

  • Acceptance means: “This is where I am – and now I move on to what I want.”
  • Acceptance isn’t giving up. Acceptance is recognition that, “This is part of my journey”.
  • Acceptance is power.

This is so true. In order to change, we have to accept we, ourself. Instead of complaining and compiling all the negative energy into our mind.

“Life is like a movie. It’s not the length but the quality that matters”. If you are not happy with yourself, no matter how long you live in this world, you will still be negative and unhappy and life will be very hard and if you continue being negative, you will not be able to love other people. Not until you learn to love yourself.

One of the applicant name Adrian reminds the readers that good thing happens in small steps. Look for good things, focus on the present and do what you can do today.

What interest me the most and is very true where is happening to me is we are giving too many excuses and end up we are postponing our happiness. There are 6 Excuses which is emphasised in the book and I am reviewing myself how many excuses I am using:

  1. If I were somewhere else, I’d be happy.

Seriously, this is so ME. I am just running away from the situation. If I run away with the problem without solving it, anywhere I go, I will still encounter the same unhappiness because I bring my bad habit and negative thinking with me.

   2. If I were older or younger- I’d be happy

Not me. I never use this excuse before. I never worry about age because I never know who am I and what I want. I now start to worrying about my age, because I realise if I do not figure out myself now, I am seriously in deep trouble because I still have a long journey to go.

    3. When I meet the perfect partner I’ll be Happy!

This excuse honestly happens on me. I have been with my fiance for 10 years and 6months. Along the journey, we have gone thru a lot of challenges. Happiness, sadness, disappointment, angry and much more. When you are in one relationship too long and you did not learn to understand each other more, and not learning to compromise, then you will lose the spark. I am lucky, very lucky one because I manage to eliminate the negativity energy that affected our relationship. I learn to love him more and learn not to run away from disagreement but confront and discuss with him on the same day. So far, we are planning for our wedding photo shooting which is happening in this coming May and our wedding dinner at end of November.

    4. If I didn’t have these problems I’d be happy!

I guess every one of us who yet to discover the right thinking will use this excuses to avoid happiness. We always avoid the problem. When there is a problem occur, you either blame another person, or you will just keep quite and run away from solving it. This is what I am trying very hard to adapt it. I learning how to accept problem which already happened and instead of complaining, I find a solution to resolved it. This will also avoid small problem becoming a big problem.

   5. If Only I Had That!

Very true excuse all of us is using. Even myself. That is why I end up realised that I own a lot of stuff. All these stuff actually is unnecessary and not all the thing I owned I am using, so end up it took up my cabinet storage. I might be thrilled the 1st day and 2nd day, but subsequently, I don’t feel anything anymore and end up is just going to be a display item in the cabinet.

   6. I’ll be happy when…

This excuse, I think is displaying my current situation where I am telling myself “I think I will be happy if I know what I want to do and what is my passion”. So, meaning to say that if I cannot find MYSELF and my passion I will continue to be sad. How can I discover MYSELF and discover my passion if my mind is full of negative thinking and energy? That is why I choose to blog my journey because expressing myself through blog makes me happy and also I able to track my journey.

In a Nutshell – The happiest people aren’t waiting for anything to happen. They learn to accept the current position and move forward. I slowly discover my happiness by blogging and by reading. =)

Happy New Year 2016

Time flies…and the first week of January 2016 ending soon… New year resolution is to be more organize and no last minute work.. 😂😭

Bought new planner…just to get myself to be more organize. 2015 is a hectic year for me. Lots of last minute work and rushing work.

The Love Doki Planner…my China colleague helped me to purchase at Taobao. Two sets of this cute lovely planner only cost me less than RM90.00. I love the colour so much..So sweet and lovely.       I also purchase some nice and motivational divider for the lovely Love Doki.. It will be easier to differentiate the page.. 🤓 Hoping that 2016 will be a better year for me… Happy New Year….. 🎆

Book Lover Stuff 

Bought myself a book jacket…love it so much…I am a book lover..I love stationaries very much..I am not crazy with handbags or fashions…but I am crazy with books and stationaries… 

Bought this book jacket at MPH One Utama..cost me RM39.00. Not very cheap also not very expensive. Bought it just to reward myself.

I start utilize it on my current reading…The Virgin Way…Richard Branson..one of my idol…😉